I support people with recovery from religious trauma and spiritual abuse, and the rebuilding of identity.

Online | Sydney's Inner West

I support people with recovery from religious trauma and spiritual abuse, and the rebuilding of identity. Online | Sydney’s Inner West

Welcome

Healing can often feel like a slow return to yourself. Being brave with a trusted listener can help process life’s challenges and move through the strong emotions that can make us feel like the ground is giving way.

I work with people navigating faith deconstruction, religious and spiritual trauma and abuse; cult recovery and harm experienced in faith settings.

I’d love to support you to heal, grow and learn more about yourself. I see clients in-person in Marrickville in Sydney’s Inner West and offer online sessions for clients across Australia and New Zealand. You can get in touch here to make a counselling appointment or here if you’d like a free 15 minute intro call. 

No matter where our stories have taken us, we all just want to be ok, to feel like we can cope, find connection and meaning. Counselling and psychotherapy has been a powerful guide for me in this way. My role is to offer that to you too.

Ways to connect | Subscribe to my weekly-ish email, How to be Ok, here. It’s about ways to, be ok, when life feels big. 

You can read my eBook on leaving religious fundamentalism here, and I write regularly on Substack. 

I shared my story with Sam from Beyond the Surface and you can find me on other podcasts here.

And, I’m over at the The Religious Trauma Collective.

A Little more

ways you can work with me.

I support therapists wanting to know more about the big topic that is religious trauma through my online course What I Wish My Therapist Knew; and through the Religious Trauma Collective.

I work with people experiencing it themselves, including cult survivors and those living with the impact of harm in high-control spaces. 

I support people through trauma healing. Our bodies know how to heal from a broken arm and from trauma. Havening techniques® are a beautiful way to bring these together. 

I offer online courses to provide accessible and flexible learning for those seeking to understand and heal from Religious Trauma.

What I wish my therapist knew about Religious Trauma is for therapists wanting language and consolidated resources for working with clients who have experienced religious trauma. It includes my own story, The Sentimental Non-Believer.

Freedom from Religious Trauma is for those who have experienced the pain of disconnection from faith and/or faith communities and are seeking healing. It’s the course I needed as the ground gave way beneath me. It’s loaded with ways to understand what you’re going through, tools for grounding and settling yourself when emotions feel big, and ways to rebuild community and spirituality.

Find out more here.

Havening techniques® also known as Havening Touch, create a safe haven, a healing environment in the brain.

Repetitive movements that you do yourself – you can choose from rubbing your hands together, downward shoulder strokes, strokes above the eyebrows and then action of wiping away tears – can ground and centre us.

When done in a guided way, while naming emotions and doing exercises to distract the brain, these can also result in the memory centre of our brain filing distressing events where they belong, in the past. Not as live events crashing into the present and causing distress.

If you named your reactivity at a 9 or a 10 before the exercise, this process can take it down to 0. And it stays there. Here’s an illustration of how.

You can book a Havening session or get in touch to find out more about this powerful modality, here.

Counselling allows you to talk freely about areas in your life where you’re feeling stuck or in pain and where you can feel your emotions without judgement. It’s a guided, safe and confidential space. 

I’m an integrative therapist and also incorporate psychotherapy tools such as Havening and embodied processing as well as a number of other modalities.

I offer online sessions across Australia and New Zealand and in-person sessions from my Marrickville room in Sydney’s Inner West. 

You can read more here.

I also offer a free 15 minute intro chat so you can ask anything else you’d like to know, which you can book here.

Grab a coffee & join me on Substack

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Religious Trauma Survey

This is the survey I use with many of my new clients to help us both find language for their experience of religious trauma, or adverse religious experiences. You can download it here to see if it’s helpful for you. Reach out if you need to. Jane